Things You Should Tell Your Significant.

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just in case i'm being filed for copyright. my thoughts are the ones in violet.

#6 I Want To Be With You

Basically this means that you still want to be with the person. You still want to be in a relationship. You just want them to know that you love spending time with him- that they make your days complete and full of joy. You want your significant other to know that their presence is something very valuable to you. You want them feel special. The best feeling is knowing that someone needs you and by saying this, they will know exactly the feeling and will love it.

well, i used to want to say this in a very serious tone but i often thought that it'll be a little... clingy and it might just scare that significant away, no? but there were times where i did say it out and i got turned down because i said it not like a whole, but like for that day itself. nevertheless, like he said: 'it's not like we can't spend the time together tomorrow or the day after, right?' :)

#5 I Love You

You should always say I love you to who you love everyday, whether a significant other or not because you won’t be sure when you will be able to say it again. But in a relationship, it is really important to remind them that you love them. They need to know what you still care and that you’d move mountains for them. Everyone needs to feel some love and hearing those three words can make anyone’s day. You just want your partner to know how much they mean to you and you can’t make them think that you love them any less. Tell them you love them everyday!

this seems legit. especially since these 3 words are so commonly used i'm not surprised it didn't end up at #1. but nevertheless, it's true. you do not know when you will like stop breathing at any time of your life. therefore these 3 words are still as important.
p/s: DO NOT EVER SIMPLIFY THEM, for goodness sake. it defeats the whole purpose of saying it. 

#4 You Are So Hot

Physical attraction isn’t on the top of the list when it comes to a relationship, but it sure is a factor! When you compliment your significant other, they will feel flattered and flattery is great, no matter whom the compliment comes from. It will make their day, I can assure you. Not only should you say that they are hot, but you should also use other phrases such as “you are so beautiful” or “you are so handsome” or “you look so cute” today. You want your partner to know that you still find them attractive and that you still want them. Compliments make it seem like you are falling in love with that person everyday.

what i usually do most of the time when we are just lazing around and he is being totally 'unattractive' (in his point of view). but even if he thinks he looks weird in his moustache, i'll still think he is quite the man. xP

#3 I Love It When You

Give them little compliments about the things they do. Compliment the way they cook, the way they play a certain sport, the way the play the guitar. Just compliment something that they are good at or at least put a great amount of effort into. Nothing is better than knowing that your hard work is being appreciated by someone. It doesn’t have to be something so big and obvious. You can just simply do little, simple compliments that he or she wouldn\'t even notice they do. Just mention you love it. It will make their day.

well, basically the way he plays badminton. :O i'm really in awe. i can't help but staring at each time he catches a smash from his opponent. 

#2 You Are My Favorite

When in a relationship, you are significant other should be your best friend and your lover. Because of that person, you feel as if you are complete and that your world wouldn’t go round without them. You want them to know, that of all the people you know, all the friends you have, that they are the one that means the most to you. You want them to feel special. You want them to feel loved. Hey, when you make them feel wanted and loved, they will do the same in return. But just let them know how important they are to you. Everyone loves to be told how important they are to someone.

and he wonders why can't i do things alone... :( it's not that i can't do it, but i prefer to do it with the company of others. and somehow, even doing nothing with him around makes time go a little slower compared to when i'm alone. (odd i know, usually it's the other way round but there are times it is really slower instead of faster.)

#1 I Respect You

There’s nothing more important than respect in a relationship. If you respect him, he respects you. Respect can go a long way because it shows that in your relationship, you guys are equals. No one should be more superior to the other when it comes to a relationship or else it won’t end up well. Respect is always wanted, not only with relationships, but with friendships as well. So, show respect to your significant other. Not only should you show it, but you should also say it. Because saying it and showing it will prove your true intentions and they will appreciate the respect.

this probably is something which i didn't quite expect but true enough to be at #1. respect is of the utmost importance when it comes to both. having respect for yourself and having respect for the other as well, no matter in what situation.